Explanation? Thing?

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Explanation? Thing?
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Posted on January 5, 2018 at 05:43:07 PM by Meryl

Hey guys. So I feel as I owe something to explain my activity or lack there of and rebounding and now drop off again. Well today I was going to reveal something to you all that was much happier and more exciting, but that's not happening now, but I think I'm ready regardless. So! A few months ago I found out I was pregnant! I was excited I told a good number of you already about that amazing news and most people knew we were trying. Hence my sudden fall off, I was EXHAUSTED and nausea was my new best friend, not to mention my family has been up my butt. So I didn't have a lot of energy to write, which is obvious when I had a string of 60 posts ish per month and tanked to about 10-20 the last couple. I apologize for that. I came back this week because I was finally feeling "like myself" again which I guess roles into the next part.

Well a few days ago I went in for an emergency appointment because I was having some issues and found out that I had miscarried. I was and still am crushed, but mending fine and dandy from it. I found out I was pregnant REALLY early so I've been anticipating my first appointment which would have been today for a long time (10 weeks)! So I'm let down and all associated things with it. I know it's common, that it happens a lot especially with first time pregnancies, but when it's you it sucks no matter how much reason you put behind it. So it sucks, I'm doing okay, I couldn't have done anything better or different it just happens and that's that. There's crap topping to it to and that's Will's deploying in just over a month and now that I'm not pregnant he's very likely doing the full tour instead of just 2 months like I was told just a week ago :( so not a great start of the year for me.

But figured I owed you guys something of an explanation :/ I'll be posting some characters that I have snippets of muse for but a lot of my characters I can't get into right now. I won't be in chat much either for a bit longer, but just until I know I've bounced back and can be cheery, happy Mer again. Not looking for a pity party or sympathy I just felt like I owed you guys an explanation to what was going on >.<

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<3 - By Aspelta January 8, 2018 at 04:41:34 PM
I love you - By Magpie January 6, 2018 at 08:40:21 PM
-hugs- - By CHant January 6, 2018 at 10:13:53 PM
> - By Castle January 6, 2018 at 10:39:10 PM
sending love - By f a t e January 10, 2018 at 05:08:27 AM

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