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Re(2): Female logic.
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Bill / Les
Here's an explanation of female logic ..I'll leave you to guess the sex of the writer...😨

The answer lies in natural differences in how both genders see and understand each other. I am talking about those natural tendencies of thinking and communicating that come with being born either male or female. In order to keep it simple I will talk about very feminine women and very masculine men, meaning I will have to generalize .

There are major differences in how both genders speak, communicate and process emotions. When faced with a certain situation, males dissociate themselves from most of immediate emotional reaction and focus on one issue at a time. Every problem needs solution- it is nearly automatic for a man to start working on plan of action even when it is not needed or expected. Fine details are tuned out- only general picture matters. Too much emotion or too many details overwhelm and confuse male way of thinking. Similar rules apply when men are speaking: down to the point, one thing at a time,limited emotions. Speaking this way is very easy for male brain to digest and understand, and is respected and judged as logical since it makes sense. With me so far?

Now take feminine brain- everything woman does carries multitude of emotions attached to it. Even minute activity like choosing bread in a store involves emotion - it is a part if making a decision. Fine details are shining bright and strong, same during conversation. When females are talking to each other, flow of conversation is different- they talk about multiple things at the same time, drop, switch and then come back to same subject with no effort, multiple times in same minute. Problems are there largely to be shared- not to be solved, as the main purpose of this activity here is connecting to another human being. If male brain tried to do same, it would likely have a seizure…

Now take males and females trying to talk to each other in their typical natural gender appropriate fashion- and it is a disaster. If female presents well thought out logical solution using female type of communication, meaning multitude of details, switching back and forth and inserting emotion at the same time, it all makes perfect sense to all women present- when men are likely just to give you blank stare. They cant understand what she is speaking about, there is no point they can see, there are too many things at once! Message presented like this appears anything but logical to men and it is likely to get rejected, when at the same time all women present will understand it well.

Different communication styles are just tip of the iceberg; nature really made us like two different species. If everyone tried to learn more about how we all think and communicate- bet there would be much less of daily commotion in our homes. Think about it next time you get angry at your spouse, maybe? Love covers all transgressions…

Geoff P




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