Re(2): The game we play Posted on February 6, 2026 at 01:34:39 AM by more assessment
You seem to know by example, the role of a 'bad actor', an unlikeable individual with your incessant made up insults. You suggest I lead a worthless life yet you have never met me, I keep my childrens successes away from you so you can't use them for ammunition like you do using their names as your pseudohandles on here. And a veiled threat this week that could end up as evidence in court against you if you misbehave.
My suggestion for you in here has always been to leave other readers with interesting, learning tidbits instead of all the same phrases like loser, worthless--same shit Trump calls people. I asked you once before, no answer, do you live wth someone you take care of, or they take care of you? At our age, it starts to be one or the other, or else we at least plan for it. We've all seen how it works with our parents, grandparents, special needs people.
I learned a lot abt them studying my own ancestry with census data for the last 200 years when people took care of grandma, who often owned the home, despite that most men gave their property and land to their boys and what they called 'personality" (household goods) to the daughters. But very together matriarchs often ran the family, akin to old prime time TV series like "Falcon Crest". And slaves were handed off depending if they were house slaves or field slaves. In wills recorded at courthouses, named by first names and ages. The valuable ones were either sentimental servants or ones with very valuable skills like tending crops buying and selling, construction work. All the stuff you'd never learn just looking at names, birth and death dates, sibling order, who died, who stayed single,and who set off with a young family to a new frontier, like moving fm MD, over the mountains and hopping a barge down the Ohio River. Or migrating from PA coal country to IL coal Country pretty much right off the boat from Europe. Some were indentured servants who'd work a form for 11-10 years to work off ship's passage, and be given seeds, tools, and a parcel of Indian land to clear and build on. And diaries, especially of moms who worked to the bone, raised gentle and sickly children and often ended up with the homesteads if their husbands died early of disease, farm accident or even war. Seemed like every family of 8 lost two to diptheria or something before school age. They were listed only once in their census records and their names disappeared. Older men married younger girls often from neighboring farms. 14-16 up to 19 was common and you could tell when they lied abt their ages because their ages listed on their censuses every 10 years didn't match the earlier one. Same for boys, but pretending older to go to World War One. I had a distant uncle who was gassed in France and came home, having to be taken care of for 40 years because of breathing issues. He never worked but families took care of each other when there was no Social Security or Veterans payments. Replies: